The Updates:
9.14.26 Update
Urgent needs / help update
Current Needs & Disability Update — September 2026
By Dalyla
I am sharing this update because I am in urgent need of disability‑informed support, legal assistance, and community help. My situation has become overwhelming due to a combination of disability regression, legal deadlines, housing crises, domestic violence displacement, and the failure of multiple agencies to provide accommodations or services.
This is not easy to write, but it is necessary.
My Disability & Current Condition
I am a neurodivergent disabled adult, formally diagnosed with ADHD, and I am seeking updated evaluation for Autism. Since two accidents on May 10th and May 14th, I have experienced:
Severe executive dysfunction
Cognitive overload
Speech regression (speaking causes throat pain, migraines, sensory overload)
Cognitive regression
Loss of ability to manage daily tasks
Loss of ability to manage my business (Hey There’s Dalyla, LLC)
Increasing disability symptoms throughout 2024–2026
I have documentation explaining my disability, the urgency of my needs, and the harmful impact when I do not receive accommodations. However, I have not had access to my files or mail due to displacement.
I need updated disability evaluation, formal Autism assessment, and disability services immediately.
Housing Crisis
I own two properties, both of which require urgent support:
1. Fulton County Residence (Current Temporary Address)
I am temporarily living in my Fulton County home while repairing and renovating it for both residence and business use. This home needs:
Repairs
Cleaning
Safety improvements
Disability‑informed support to manage the process
2. Dekalb County (Decatur) Property
This home is not safe due to domestic abuse and violence. Additional issues:
My spouse abandoned the home and left belongings
All financial responsibility was placed under my name
I was displaced in a domestic violence shelter since July
I have not had access to my mail, files, or disability accommodations
I urgently need legal permission from the divorce court judge to:
Remove or store my spouse’s belongings
Clean and repair the home
Prepare it for rental or business use
Prevent financial loss or foreclosure
Legal Emergencies
I have multiple urgent legal matters that require disability accommodations and extended time:
Jury trial scheduled for September 21st — I do not have a lawyer or disability accommodations
Divorce proceedings
Domestic violence‑related legal matters
Identity theft and fraudulent financial activity
Housing and property disputes
Disability discrimination
EEOC “Right to Sue” — I cannot navigate the process without accommodations
Personal injury evaluation related to the May accidents
Loss of workers’ compensation and employment
I need disability‑informed legal advocacy immediately.
Barriers to Support
I have already contacted:
Legal Aid
Disability Link
GAO
Multiple medical providers
I have been repeatedly told:
“We cannot help you,”
“You don’t qualify,”
or I have been denied disability accommodations or discriminated against.
I cannot self‑navigate these systems due to my disability. I need coordinated support, not referrals.
Financial Disability Needs
I have not been able to work in any of my prior ways due to:
Cognitive regression
Speech regression
Executive dysfunction
Loss of access to my files and mail
Loss of workers’ compensation
Loss of employment
I need:
Disability benefits
Financial support
Administrative assistance
Help managing my business with accommodations
Family Medical Crisis
I am also navigating end‑of‑life circumstances with my grandparents out of town:
My grandfather is currently on a ventilator
My grandmother was recently hospitalized and is not well
This adds significant emotional and logistical strain.
What I Need Right Now
I need urgent, disability‑informed support, including:
A disability‑informed case manager
Help organizing documents and completing applications
Legal representation (especially for the October 7th trial)
ADA accommodations and deadline extensions
Housing support for both properties
Updated disability evaluation (Autism + neurological)
Personal injury legal evaluation
Administrative support for daily functioning
Financial disability assistance
Help navigating agencies that have denied me
Why I’m Sharing This
I am sharing this publicly because I cannot organize or communicate all of this verbally due to my disability. I need help, and I need people to understand the full picture.
If you are able to assist, connect me with resources, or advocate on my behalf, it would make a life‑changing difference.
Thank you for reading, for caring, and for supporting me through this extremely difficult time.
— Dalyla
August 30, 2026 Needs Updates:
Housing Needs Update: I stepped into my “Lemonade House” today and praise God! Y’all - I think we can turn it around in just a few days! I have been displaced since July - so yes, I was flooded with tears of hope of being in my own home again. But I do need:
- Furniture: Bed, mattress, tables, chair, desk, couch, shelves or storage - the basics (I don’t have anything but suitcases and my essentials.
- Misc Items: cleaner, pesticides (spiders and rodent), hangers, kitchen / silver ware, lamps (battery operated)
- Services: security, pest control, cleaning, movers - bulky items
- Logistics: Getting the Home Serviced - Utilities (Power, water, internet)
Legal Needs Update:
-Jury trial in 2 weeks: for a traffic ticket from the May 11th car accident scheduled mid-September (in a few weeks) that amidst all things, I don’t know what to do.
- Family Law: I need help -I just need to be divorced so I can move on and need help requesting a ruling in place of continuance, hardship & disability accomodations, preparation for mediation, visitation with my step daughters, and getting a TPO or a restraining order.
- Criminal Law - a few things related to an SVU case that I need re-opened, a disability / SVU advocate, Identity Theft / Fraud, and Cyber Hacking
- Civil Law - several issues around disability discrimination I need consultation on my rights.
Medical Update:
This week I was at the ER with continued neurological / neurodivergent challenges that has progressed to migraines, high sensory sensitivity, executive dysfunction, and cognitive overload, and still non-verbal speech regression. It was not a positive experience. Once again I was labeled with mental health and told “Sorry, I can’t be of help” when seeking neurological or neurodivergent full evaluation. The doctor did take scans and mentioned something about my brains “white matter”
Needs:
- Neurological / neurodivergent evaluation - specifically serving AuDHD (autism and adhd) and OCD so I may get updated diagnosis and supportive accomodations
- I need low cost dentist - I had a broken crown turned root canal that has been needed since Feburary
Other Needs:
- Administrative Support & Help - assistance with organizing my documents, making phone calls (I am non-verbally disabled), and sending emails
- Applications and paperwork - I have low capacity for sceens and overwhelmed with the paperwork, applications, and records. Let me know if you can help me fill out forms.
- Transportation - a car (low as possible), a bike, or a ride to appointments.
Community - let me know if you know anyone else I should reach out to or forward to those you think could help!
Thank you!
Dalyla
*email is the best way to communicate with me. I am non-verbal with speech regression and ask you honor my need for written communication as an apportant accomodation. Verbal communication is limited and painful.